Worry Box

There is a girl in my class she is so meen she said to my best freind that im a looser . i feel; like im a ant and shes a elaphant please help me. RESPONSE FROM WW- tell someone and ask your teacher to discuss the issue in your PSHE lesson- you have a right to feel safe- discuss this with your friend as well. This girl who called you a loser is probably feeling lonely- try and befriend her if you can. WW

my best freind isn't playing with me what shall i do. RESPONSE FROM WW- ask why they aren't playing with you- discuss with your teacher about how you feel and see if they can set up a meeting between you and your friend to discuss. WW

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i dont think anyone likes me because no one wants to sit next to me at lunch or play with me. they also talk about me behind my back.RESPONSE FROM WW- have you talked to the people and asked them why they are talking about you?- is there a buddy bench system you can use to find people to play with? Speak to your peer mediators as well as they should be able to pair you up with someone. If not, speak to your teacher, they want you to feel happy and safe. WW.

I DONT HAVE ANY FREINDS BECAUSE WE GOT SPLIT UP. Response from WW- Have you had the classes split? Give your new class a chance- it will take time, but you will make friends and the old friends you had you will see at playtime/lunchtime. If you are still unhappy by Oct half term- speak to your teacher. WW

my siter keeps hurting me. RESPONSE FROM WW- Tell your mum or dad and speak to your teacher. Everyone has a right to feel safe and happy- if you feel you can't speak to them find an adult/older friend whom you can trust. Otherwise come back to me and I'll try to put you in contact with someone who can help. WW.

There's this girl who's really clever and when ever
our teacher has to deal with some thing she gets to read the tests out or she gets to teach maths,and also when
we went on our school trip she did'nt have to wear a yellow hat and every one else did ,i think this is really unfair,please help. RESPONSE FROM WW- is there any way you can discuss this with your teacher about being fair and everyone having a responsibilty in the classroom when they have to go out? How are things now the tests have finished? Look forward to hearing from you again Bubbles. WW.

thires aboy and he wastes peoples time at playtime what should I do? RESPONSE FROM WW- let him waste his own time rather than yours- leave him to waste his own time. Talk to your teacher about it if it affecting your playtime. WW.

Well my mum she shouts at me for no reason i cry a cry but my mum justs smacke me even more. it realy gets on my nerves she coveskates my nintendo i just whant to say rude words please help me - RESPONSE FROM WW- Think about why your mum is shouting? When you have both calmed down discuss a better way to resolve things and maybe come up with a rights/responsibilties at home you can work out with your mum. Well done for not saying any rude words- that would get your mum even crosser! Count to 10 and breath... think of something else you can say instead of a rude word. Second Problem: you didnt ansewer my school council problem. RESPONSE FROM WW- I am so sorry- it doesn't appear to have been sent to me- Please write back telling me your worry and I'll answer.

my friends dont play with me any more they go to the hard-court in stead I only have 2 friends left please help me please. RESPONSE FROM WW- Your friends still like you even though they've gone on the hardcourt- everyone likes to play different games as well to add variety to their playtime. You will need to comprimise with your friends about playing sometime with you and sometime on the hard court- maybe you can join them on the hardcourt? What games do they play? Or let them decide the game when playing with you? There are lots of different things to try. Let them know how you feel when they've gone on the hardcourt- they might not know how lonely you are! Finally- make sure you thank the 2 friends that you've got left to play with when your other friends go to the hardcourt! They need to feel appreciated and they probably enjoy playing with you without a big group!!

Im worried that my friend hates me because she ceeps saying that im going out with a boy and im not. RESPONSE FROM WW- Your friend probably doesn't hate you, she may feel a little left out that you're always playing with the boy- include her in your games- talk to her about how she feels.

im worried that my frinend hates me because she all was lieing about me she said that i said i hate another friend but i dont.some times she gets me in trobl for no rezen.RESPONSE FROM WW- Talk to your friend again- explain that you didn't mean it when you said you hated her (be careful about saying hate too often as it's a very strong word.) Discuss her lying and say it's not something you like. I'm sure your friend is missing your friendship as well. If she's getting you into trouble consider what the right thing to do and tell an adult if there is something you are unhappy with if you get into trouble.

My Teacher wont let me play with my best friends for two days and i cant coap witth out them and i really want to play with them evry time i see them i feel sad and im worryed that i get in trobe because for 2 days i she shouted at me. RESPONSE FROM WW- Did your teacher have a good reason? however if you feel your teacher has been unfair then please speak to your teacher again. 2 days is almost up now- consider why you have been encouraged to stay apart and how your friendship can be different (positive) when you play next together.

I've got a wart on my hand and people keep saing ew.I don't like it I've put my name up for the class cloud and my teacher keeps forgetting to speak to us what should I do. RESPONSE FROM WW: Take the class cloud to your teacher- sometimes they are busy they forget (not delibrately) Your teacher will want to know if something is worrying you. Tell your parents as well, see if you can get a doctors appointment to check it out- also those children saying "eww" remind them that you are still the same and explain what it is to them.

To worrie Willson I am worried that at school my friends won,t like me any more and i will be left on my own in a corner crying . i know im a very nice girl but sometimes i get worried what shall i do . please help me.RESPONSE FROM WW- What have your friends said to you to make you worry so much- talk to your teacher and your friends about your worries and let them know how much you like them- do you like drawing? Draw them a picture to let them know how much you enjoy the friendship. Remember to be a good friend and play nicely as well.

when i try to be funny my friends don't like it.When i ask to play they shout at me.And i have diabeties but they don't want to come.What shouled i do? RESPONSE FROM WW- Be your self! Don't try to act funny- be yourself and your friends will like you for you. During your circle time ask if you can discuss your condition and explain to people why you want someone to come with you and how you feel now- ask your teacher first and disuss with them what you are worried about in the class.

Ive got this ps2 game called star wars battlefront and I can be a jedi but only on one it's still fun what should I do RESPONSE FROM WW- What is wrong with this game? It sounds lots of fun! Let me know what is wrong with it or what you are worried about.

I am in year 6 and about to sit my sats.Iam really worried.My teacher says they are really important, but my mum says there not and so long as i try my best thats ok.But im worried i will do really badly.im in an extra class for some of my lessons.We do sats sats sats all day,I feel stressed. RESPONSE FROM WW- sorry about the delay in replying- how have your SATS gone this week? Were they as bad as you thought?

im worrid that im going to forget my lines in the play and evrey one laghing at me.REPSONSE FROM WW- Take a deep breath and count 1, 2, 3- then relax- if you have learnt your lines thoroughly, your mind will remember them through a prompt (a cue). Think of something that might help?

when i go outside and sit on the buddy bench nowone
comes to me what shall i do. RESPONSE FROM WW. Let your Class teacher know as it is part of the rights and responsibilties in your class. It sounds like your class have forgotten how to look after each other. Remind them that you are sitting alone and would like to play with someone. Remember to speak to your teacher as well. WW

i dont no what to about being good at school with my teacher and other taechers in the class what shall i do about it worrie willson please send a coment and try to help me ill be greatfull for help. RESPONSE FROM WW- Try your best and you will make everyone proud. Try not to respond without thinking and I'm sure your teacher will let you know how pleased they are of your hard work. Keep on being good and I hope you get lots of rewards for being good. WW

hi im worried about that im never gowing to score a goal on football becasue another class think im a loser they never want to pass to me and some of boys shout at me and hurt me and never say sorry. RESPONSE FROM WW- What about playing with people from your class? I've been doing some research and I've seen you play- you looked brilliant! Keep on trying hard and practising and you will improve your skills. I know other boys can be mean, sometimes you've got to ignore them and show them your skills when playing football. If they won't play- start your own team up! Have fun playing football! WW.

when i am playing football the ball nearlly hits me and
i am worred that one day it will. RESPONSE FROM WW Have you thought about wearing a cap when you play? this would stop it hurting your head too much. Is it a sponge ball? They don't hurt too much when they hit (if that helps!) Try to watch where the ball is going and if it does hit you- don't worry- let someone know that it's hit you- if you are happy to play on then enjoy the game... lots of the best footballers get hit and they carry on- Have a fun time playing football. WW

it is verry hard not to lick my slit because it gets dry. RESPONSE FROM WW- How is your lip? sorry for the delay in getting back to you. Have you been using the lip salve? Hope it's improving. WW.

Im worried that my freinds will make fun of me becaues i have a perpol thumb i put my thumb in thje back door at home. REPSONSE FROM WW- Lots of people might be interested in why your thumb is purple! Tell them in show and tell- it's always exciting what happens to our fingers and bones.... WW

Last night my sister kicked me round the face. RESPONSE FROM WW- Were you in school? You have got to tell your sister you don't like being kicked, tell an adult or someone you trust and get away from the situation. If she's angry and kicking out- wait until she's calmed down a bit then talk to her. WW.

laughing at my football. RESPONSE FROM WW- Who is laughing at your football? I need more information please! WW

When I go to play in the hardcourt people tackle me an don't give me a foul and i'm worried that they will tackle me roughly. RESPONSE FROM WW- Is the hardcourt a playing area? Are there any rules on the hardcourt? Remember the rights and responsibilties charter you have- if someone plays rough- go back to the charter and let them know they aren't keeping to their end of their responsibilities. It's fun playing football so don't worry about being hurt- sometimes we get hurt by accident- if you feel you've been hurt unfairly- Let the adult know on duty that you have been hurt. Have fun playing! WW.

A girl in my class keeps on fighting over me when I want to play with someone else and I dont like it because I alway yoost to play with her in year two she keep on saying that I keep on chooseing another girl and that she wont be my friend when this other girl is nice and she dosent say stuff like that. RESPONSE FROM WW- Offer to play with both girls. If you don't like what she is saying then tell her and say until she's nice you won't play with her. Don't be mean back- just let her know how you want to be played with. Explain that your new friend is nicer and you want to play with her. Tell your teacher and think about discussing this in your PSHE lesson. Let me know what happens. WW

Im worryed that ,my friend hates me baecaue shes mostley evrey day being horribel to me. RESPONSE FROM WW- Ask your friend why she's being horrible. Challenge her behaviour and tell her you don't like it. If she doesn't listen, then maybe you should find some other people to play with. If she is coming up to you and being horrible (whilst you are playing with someone else) then tell an adult on duty or your teacher. It might be worth having a discussion with your teacher and the two of you? Let me know how you get on? WW.

My slit in my lip is not going and it realy hurts I have been putting lip seel on what should I do. RESPONSE FROM WW- Try to stop licking the split in your lip. Our body is good at repairing it's self so you have to allow it to repair. Keep applying the lip seal even when it doesn't hurt. Have you told your mum or dad it still hurts- it's worth letting them know so they maybe buy you a stronger lip seal or one to protect your lips. WW

I'm worried my teacher hate's me becuase i always get in trouble when we have a naver teacher and i am silly. REPSONSE FROM WW- Try your hardest with the teachers who take over your class and think about what you are doing. Do you have a class charter in your class? Look at what your responsibilites are. Speak to your teacher and discuss rewards for being good. Keep smiling and trying hard. WW

I don't think my teecher likes me. RESPONSE FROM WW- What makes you think this? Today go and speak to your teacher and tell them how you feel. If you don't think you can't do that, let me know why you think they don't like you and I will try to point you in the direction of help. Have a good day. WW

at school im scared of someone- shes ugly and horrible. RESPONSE FROM WW- Why are you scared of this person? If you are able to give me more details I will try and help. You've described this person as ugly and horrible- why have you used these words? Also- have you mentioned how you feel to someone you trust-your mum, a teacher? I really want to help so please let me know what else I can do. WW.

I am scead of monsters please can you help me. RESPONSE FROM WW- Lots of children are worried about monsters. The good thing is monsters are not real- it can be a shadow you've seen or light reflecting. If you are scared at night, tell the adult you're with so they can tell be there to talk to you. Lots of books talk about monsters and they are made up so do not worry about seeing them around! WW

pilpol ceep herting me. RESPONSE FROM WW: Please tell an adult straight away if someone is hurting you. Find someone you can trust- there are lots of people at school you can talk to if you can not talk to some one at home. It's important that you share your worries with someone who can help. Let me know if you can not find someone and I'll try to point you in the right direction. WW

my mum all wais smacs me and I doant like it and I all wais cries. RESPONSE FROM WW: When mummies are really cross they sometimes smack- if you have been naughty this could be a response from your mum. if you are unsure as to why mummy is telling you off, ask her. It might be wise to talk to someone you trust (an adult) about what is happening and they will be able to help you. WW

im getting bullied by someone at after school club and im getting worred that he dos'nt like me anymore what should I do he's got a sister older than me and she can do a cartweel and kick me in face.my best freind not yesterday but the day before he pushed me just becuase i frowed his car back to him i didn't chase after him becuase i new it wosn't the right thing to do afer wise i would get into trouble and no one would like me. my friends. RESPONSE FROM WW- Friendships always go through change- if they say they don't like you, there are always other friends around when you least expect it. Sometimes people say they don't like you and then a day later it's all ok-Look for other people you can play with who are kind to you. Well done for doing the right thing and not chasing. You have shown very good common sense. Hope it all works out with your friends and you are happy playing at afterschool club. If the unkind things carry on at afterschool club- you must let the person in charge know.

I am beging bullied and I dont like it it is horrible what shall I do worrie willson. RESPONSE FROM WW- You really need to talk to someone who can help (an adult) at your school so they can help you and hopefully improve the situation for you. Do not worry- tell someone you trust as soon as you can.

Every time I play a sport football basketball there's just one person in my team who complains. I get very up set as well I only discoverd that people stand in the midle .My team get very angry. We told the teacher they did nothing. RESPONSE FROM WW- It's a really difficult thing when children are playing sport because people argue and don't listen when they are supposed to be having fun. Next time you feel upset or left out when you are playing football/basketball tell your team and if you need to- tell an adult straight away! (Do not wait til the end of play!) Hope this helps- maybe your teacher might like to watch what is happening? Ask them!

I am worried about my ulsas not going because they keep hurting they dont hurt if I put it under water but I dont have a water bottle so they keep hurting. RESPONSE FROM WW: Tell your mum/dad as you can get some medication that helps ulcers! Do not suffer in silence.

im worred i wont have any friends because im bossy- RESPONSE FROM WW- You need to try to be less bossy and make sure you listen to your friends.

I am not getting on with my wok well what shall I do. RESPONSE FROM WW: Why aren't you getting on well with your work? Is there anything that is distracting you? Try to remove yourself from the distraction. Let your teacher know you are worried and keep giving your best.

I am worried that people won't come to my party. RESPONSE FROM WW: Firstly don't worry! Your friends will all want to come and if only a few come, then you will have fun with them! Speak to your friends about what you are going to do and make them aware of how great it's going to be. Have fun at your party!

I'm worried that my freinds will chase other people and I will to then the people will go some where else and i will be left alone.
RESPONSE FROM WW
If you are left alone, then try these things
1. don't panic! Try to find them-
2. see if there are any other friends around from your class or year group that you can play with.
3. find the buddy bench and wait for someone to play with.
Let me know how you get on and I hope you have a lovely play tomorrow WW

Today at school I got Bullied.
RESPONSE FROM WW
Tell me what happened today at school and I will try to help.

My friend`s are pushing , shuving , punching , kiking and othor ways .
RESPONSE FROM WW:
What sort of game are you playing? If it's too rough it's best to avoid that game. Tell your friends that you don't like it and if that doesn't stop: Please tell an adult as soon as it happens so they can deal with it.

I am worried I wont have any frends any more what shall I do



RESPONSE FROM WW- Why wouldn't you have any more friends? Speak to your friends and let them know you are feelings a little worried about your friendship. Also don't forget to use the buddy bench if you can't find anyone to play with. Let me know how it goes speaking to your friends. WW.

when i write i keep on shaking.

RESPONSE FROM WW- Have you spoken to somebody about your hand shaking? Let someone know that it is happening (an adult) and they should help you sort it out. Let me know how you get on and I will try and help if you need me too WW.